So, that guy that I mentioned before in my last post…. yea, he is still around. We had decieded while we were still dating that even if we broke up in the future, we still wanted be be friends.
How did we ensure that this happened?
We quite brilliantly decided to sign a lease together with a couple of our friends…. which seemed like an amazing idea at the time (at least to him). The house that we got was perfect, and still is! Being only a 10 minute walk from central campus and super inexpensive, it was perfect for our group. However, my “self proclaimed” commitment issues were screaming in my ears not to do it.
The thought of us living together, as a couple, was frightening… but of course we did it anyways.
Since we have quite obviously broken up since then, we’re trying our best to keep things civil. Oh goodness, the first few weeks were awful!
We finally had a talk which really cleared things up, but also made things even more complicated for it brought more problems to light. Problems with the guy whom I had convinced to be our fifth roommate. Problems that I had lowkey been avoiding.
This other guy and I were stuck in England together for a few months, and had become amazing friends. All of the close friends that we had made kept warning me that in his eyes, our relationship was more. He never said anything (and still hasn’t), but he was the sweetest guy and would have done anything for me.
He knew my favorite orders everywhere we went, we had inside jokes… we practically spent every waking second together. I thought, and still hope, that we are just good friends. I hope that I have made it clear enough to him!
But that may be something I need to talk about next time…..
Until then.
Have a great day.
Call your momma.
Tell her that you love her.
Signing off,
Chrissy.
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